Ten ways to keep the fire burning

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Ten ways to keep the fire burning

By admin | February 1, 2010

The reports are very similar to fireplaces. They can bring the warmth and comfort of their home to make it a pleasant place to escape from the harsh elements that often are outside, but it works.

If you have a fire bigger and hotter than you get more wood in the fireplace, and because the wood is consumed on the spot so quickly to maintain the same level of heat is needed to carry the wood for the fire as quickly he used. "

If you want to keep the fire in yourThe report must also have "burn with fire" at the same level it is committed.

When we first meet someone, start with a spark. We can cultivate the system of fuel, such as flowers, dinner, notes, poems, candlelight dinners, long walks anywhere just to talk, etc. Over the years many couples allow other things that consume their time to work, children and their activities, home and garden work, and often forget to feed the fire. What happened? Youflame goes out and the heat is gone. Instead of blaming yourself for not feed the fire, many blamed the fire and said it has stopped working, and are too often begin to seek other sources of heat: television, children, internet, work, food , hobbies, sports, chat rooms and other reports, a place that ease and pleasure to be found. One can easily see that these couples are, if you look hard enough, do not usually take more hands, hug is somethingpast, be spent eating and reading the newspaper and when the meal is finished (even if you eat), there goes his own way, and his hair. He felt so warm on the couch and get so much love in a book.

At this point, if you're with me, many of you are probably thinking;
"Oh my gosh you are talking about us!"

Well, if this is true, there is still hope to read ….

What can be done to prevent the passion burning?

Takesconsciously work to keep all fire and that fire in your close relationship. When I was a wood stove that I often had to stand in the middle of the night, still more wood to place on fire. I had to prepare and wood to reach things before you start getting cold, and it costs time, effort and sometimes money. If you like passion in your relationship, it will take some work, it will be necessary effort on your part, and sometimes do things that you prefer not to do.

1 PreparePeriods of cold before.

The worst thing you can do is wait for the fire to start, before collecting the wood. This means that in advance before it gets cold, it saves time to go, except for a couple of dollars to go out to eat or a hotel, plan your vacation schedule for child care in advance, to plan something special for the birthday of birthdays, the day of St. Valentino, etc. Sit down with a second, have a calendar and set aside the dates you will agree to takeWhatever. Put a red heart in these days, when life becomes hectic and began to suck the passion from you, not only that the heart can bring comfort and hope. Dates surprise special plan in which each person is responsible for what you are doing and where you go without the other already knows.

2 Do not wait for the fire, not too small

Nobody likes that the temperature fluctuates too much, cold one minute, hot the next. We would have preferred a constant heat. InTo do this, with a brand and a relationship, you must feed the fire periodically. Set aside weekly or bi-nights a week. Sometimes a night in a different environment will do wonders, even if it is a hotel in a corner of the programs in which you live. Dinner, a movie or just a walk in the park, a ride in the car with the radio so you can talk to each other. Keep cell phones off or at least screen the calls and emergencies only. Send flowers or candy,Leave love notes and words of encouragement in places only your loved ones go. Leave a message on the answering machine, let them know that you love them, I remember the phone companies out of business a few years ago? "I just called to say I love you." It 'still effective. Surprise with a working lunch. Be creative.

3 view of the fire.

Sometimes because of 'environment and the type of wood you should be able to shoot at faster intervals to feed. Life is neversame every day. Some days we are able to coast, and things go well and other days seem like everything that could go wrong. Days is busy and difficult to suck the life and passion of ours. Keep an eye on the fire, if your spouse has seen rough times, you can use a little 'more wood on the farm. Take some 'of their responsibilities from those of recent days to ease their burden. Be more loving, the bad and a few candles lit. Sending children to neighbors for a couplehours or, better yet, bring them to the movies.

4th of cargo for the long nights.

If you foresee any reason why you may not be able to adapt to fire, so make sure you upload your fireplace if you want to burn even more when things are back to normal. If a person leaves with a fresh memory of how warm and comfortable at home, are less inclined to look elsewhere for heating. Enough said?

5 Keep away from fire extinguishers.

There are somethings that will sit in a fire in a split second. Telephone calls during dinner, conversations at work, lack of money, read the newspaper and no attention, complaining and annoying are all things that will hold the passion. Although children with their needs will be a speck of an evening out with good intentions. Act for them to be far away. Neighbors and relatives can come and knock at the door with the best intentions, hang a do not disturb sign out and let everyone know that must remainway.

6 Know your wood.

You should know that the fuel burns better. Know your partner likes and dislikes, what they want to eat is the kind of films they like and what they would do. If you're not sure it's hot, ASK! Believe me, it's easier to ask what it is to experiment. And hey! When they tell you what they want, do not think you know better. Men, a night at Lowe's to look at the latest cordless drill may seem a good time for you, but I believe thatThe tree is not flammable find, and the ladies, if your husband is not one story mushy love for man, movies like "Pretty Woman" is so wet, such as wood can be.

7 If it is your turn to feed the fire, just to do it.

When it's your turn to feed the fire, remember that this time it feeds and do not eat, so what you really want does not mean anything. Focus on what's hot, not yours. If the fire, do not worry you warm.

8 Takestwo.

There must be some give and take in all the circumstances, said he was grateful and happy for each other. When egos get in and it becomes all about me, I have everything that can anger begins to grow, and that the water in any context. Stop blaming each other. You can not say that you have no wood on the fire, because you do not get any heat from the fireplace and you can say that it does not heat, because nobody gives a tree. Both partiesdependent on each other to create a warm relationship.

9 Do not clog up the heat

If the register is kept meeting on the fire and you get no heat or consolation out of it, will finally stop feeding the fire. You should give as much as what you get, if not more. A good stove is designed to return a good portion of the heat it generates, a poor man to get the heat going up the chimney. If your spouse to give and give and take and take, notsurprised when the show stops. It's called balance. Everything in the universe survive this principle and not for your relationship. You must give to receive, and if you want more information, you must give much more. Again, if you do your part, do not be surprised if the timber has stopped.

10 Care for the fireplace

Do you remember when you started dating? You were always on time, dressed to kill, her hair all done up, the trick right, a car ortruck has authorized. He never said a harsh word to each other, some even apologized when burped loudly. How is it now? Hair curlers, no makeup, McDonald's yesterday on the floor of the car slides his chair, dressed in work clothes for dinner and go to bed in what looks like your fathers old clothes to work? You have the power to farmers? You still have the language when he took care to find, or they treat foreigners with milder words, so your spouse? When the fireplace appearance and behaviorsince it was sold out and people start to think about replacing it with a newer model. Take care of yourself outside and inside. Take it to work? Of course not. So? A chimney that is well managed, will be adequately maintained.

What happens if the fire is almost out of all?

Very often, after the fire is almost out with only a few embers left, many feel they have a stick can throw on the fire, and will be a flash of heat into the house. They see the sudden flashfeels a little 'heat and go to bed with a smile on his lips, but before the sun rises, things are just as cold as before. One night in a forest of flowers, a meal or a compliment, and feel everything should be the same the next day. For these compounds, which have grown cold, it must start over, feed him a bit 'at a time. As in the law or dating days time together just talking, eating, a note left by a call late at nightnothing, flowers, candy, and perfume. I remember, when a fire is extinguished, is not only a fireplace, which cooled the entire house done so well. The stone or brick, furniture, walls, floors and ceilings, all must be heated and it takes time and energy. If you want the passion back, start small, be consistent and not give up. You can take something a little less every day for weeks before you really feel the warmth of return, and when you see the little flame, you better fanand run it cause it will disappear quickly if they do not. When it starts to burn, go ahead and not let him go again!

Final Thoughts:

An employment relationship and requires constant attention. The enemy wants to take attention away from the relationship, and that the money elsewhere, knowing that if our eyes to maintain long enough, We'll fix it. These principles apply not only to our relationship with the spouse, but also with our children, friends and familyOf course, our relationship with God Jesus went to the Church of Ephesus in Revelation chapter 2, when he said: "You did a great job, but I've done to you, you left your first love, remember that you used to do, and return to, and repent. "Thinking back to how you appear when you first met, as we speak and the actions they have treated. I think back to when things were great and full of passion and is now doing what you did.

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